I was given one advice and followed it to heart.
“Find someone who you can talk to about everything and anything under the sun.”
It means to find someone whom you can:
- argue over something silly like whether coffee or tea is better and in the end, agree to disagree
- come up with wild ideas and doesn’t belittle them
- be frank about how your friends annoy you at times and keep it to themselves
- confide your fears
- share your fragile dreams
- say “I love you” to.
That was my only criteria and I found him at my first try. He irks me at times, he’s not devastatingly handsome but his smile is all I need to get through a bad day. We argue and fight but in the end we talk about what got us angry.
He is not Mr Perfect but he is my Mr Wonderful.